Getting over = Forgotten?

How do you get over someone that mattered to you?Or as a matter of fact, still matters to you in a way or so?
I wish this entry be no alarm to anyone but I am going crazy without blogging this out..my only sanctuary of actual thoughts and feels.

I hardly get over people who matters to me. Even though they are not involved with your present now, I still never wanna quite forget them. This relates to my 2nd previous entry, I buried them behind my time with them, behind those memories.

I dunno how people do it. Maybe it goes from individual but I dunno how.
How do you get over someone that you cares so much for? Even when you step into a new phase of life, do you ever stop thinking of them? Maybe you STOP cos' you have to but you don't deny who they were to you, their places in your heart then can not be replaced, with or without someone new.
If you can get over them so easily and telling me they are not important anymore(Simply forgotten), you are telling me that they don't mattered after all.Not as much as you think they did.
They can be less important but they are never forgotten.

They..they..they. How many of 'they' am I speaking of? I guess I am referring to only one now.

I am talking now not as a status of a girlfriend of Jason. I'm talking for myself...myself.

Not being able to forget someone who probably shouldn't matter to you in the first place is bad enough. Getting reminded of is worse.
I thought I am almost there. Almost able to stand up proud and kiss goodbye. But I realised a part of your love can never be replaced nor erased.I would hate anyone who tell me to do so for anyone but my sake.My feelings are my own and they have no right or wrong. Only my mind dictates the judgement but not my heart.

I ask this to anyone out there. Even right now you are in a new phase of your life. Even right now you are with someone right. Even right now you are doing fine on your own. Have you forgot totally someone then?

For me...Totally selfish. I choose to protect the feelings I had. I choose to protect the memories I had. I choose to protect this small part on my own on top of everything else I owed.
I guess I never want to forget. I never want it to be replaced. I selfishly believed that it can't be replaced no matter how good the present or future may be. I thought those feelings were raw and precious. They hurt real badly and they bring the sweetest of tears.

I am too protecting what I really have now. I am trying not to let something that's I've gotten over to ruin anything now.

But sometimes...I feel, everything is already written in the stars.

I hope for forgiveness one day.